True love

 If you ever love someone, love them as a whole. And the love I am talking about is not only romantic kind of love,It's the love which is the basis of every relation that we hold close to our heart. People are not pizza that you can leave the hard sides. Actually we need to love gently the hard parts of people, because it's the part which they try to hide, which have scars scattered all over, and they just need a gentle touch of love, affection and affirmation that even though their scars are deep and may be scary, their scars are not who they are, and it's okay to open the scars, because that's the only way to heal them. 

And it's okay if you are not able to love them with their scars, if you are afraid that you would break them, just let them know, just tell them.

Don't show your love and affection as per your convenience. It's the worst thing you can do to anyone. Because most of us are broken in our own ways and many times we become dependent on someone when we see the slightest hope of love and affection we longed for, so if you do decide to enter someone's life as anything, just love all their parts. Because everyone talks about heart break after a romantic relationship, but no one talks about heart break after losing a friend, or favourite cousin or favourite teacher or maybe the stranger you see everyday in a bus and they suddenly stop coming or after changing schools and the list goes on.... 

And I am not telling you to suffer in the process of loving someone, but we do need to understand that loving someone always comes with hurt, no one is perfect, no one will ever be perfect, but we need to choose who is worth suffering for. And don't change yourself so that someone can love you, and don't expect that someone will change or force them to change because you love some idea of them. And there is a difference between correcting someone from making a mistake and trying to change them from the core. 

So just love and accept the people for who they are, without trying to change them and make them "perfect" according to norms that suit you. Last but most important thing don't change yourself from your core for someone, because in doing so you are betraying the most important person "yourself".

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