Relationships

 When you have just started dating someone, DON'T quickly trust them so much, don’t quickly give them all your heart, don't easily open your legs for them, don't quickly make permanent decisions like future plans with them, don't quickly talk about them or show them in your friends and family, don't quickly go to where they stay, don't quickly give them big promise you might not fulfill, don’t low down your standards, don’t relate them to your past and innocently punish them for it, don’t quickly lead them on, don’t misrepresent yourself, don’t forget your lessons learnt from your previous relationships. 

When you find someone and you develop true feelings for them, please love them and give that relationship your best so that you don't live with regrets in case they ever walk out of your life. Enjoy and cherish every moment you get with them because you have no guarantee about tomorrow. And if they ever bang the door to leave your life, don’t block their exit. Let them go. And when they leave, don't be so hard on yourself because that phase is also part of life.

Every relationship will get boring after you've been together for so long. Lots of things will come in to challenge you and mess up everything. Love isn't a feeling, its a commitment; to love everyday, physically and emotionally. It's not always laughs, smiles and fun. It can get real hard. Things can get screwed up. Tempers and harsh words come out. And people tend to quit. Quiting is never the solution coz even the new person you'll meet they won't be perfect.